Sunday, May 15, 2011


3 Tips to Getting a Phone Number




Some men meet lots of women througout the day, but when the times comes for them to get a phone number or email, or taking them on an instant date, they tend to hesitate.  Sometimes they might even completely shut down and become speechless.  So for all of those guys out there who may feel anxiety when the time comes to get a phone number, this is for you.



A quick way you can get over this is to have something prepared.  Always have something on the tip of your tongue for the end of a conversation.  Here’s 3 tips from those in the know to help you get that contact info if you feel the conversation coming to a close (or if you need to take off).



The first one is to just be casual.  Say, “It was great meeting you, but I’ve got to go.  My friends are waiting for me, but we should definitely catch up some time.”  Then you get our your phone and put it physically in her hands and say, “Enter your number/digits here and I’ll text you the details.”  So after she does that and gives you back the phone, you call the number right there in front of her while she’s still standing there.  Sometimes they’ll be like,”What, you don’t trust me?” to which you would respond, “No, no I don’t trust you.”  Be sure to say it playfully while laughing a bit.




The second way to get a number is for if she has to go somewhere.  Most of the time if you, say, stop women on the street they tend to be on their way somewhere.  They might be on their way to work or heading out to lunch for their break, or doing one of a million other things.  So you want to make sure you’re very brief; short and sweet as the term goes.  Anyway, getting the number can be quite easy.  She’ll say something like, “I’ve gotta take off now.”  To which you respond, “Alright, cool, no problem, but you seem like an interesting person; I think we can definitely catch up sometime and hang out.”  Then you get out your phone and ask how they spell their name.  THen you just wait, while looking at the phone and her as though you’re expecting her to tell you how she spells her name (because you are).  And that’s it; its just that easy.  YOu’ll enter their name in and then ask for their digits while saying something along the lines of, “cool, I’ll instant message you/text you” or something to that effect.  And, again, you’ll call them right there in front of them to check the number.  After you check the number just say, “It was great meeting you, we’ll definitely catch up sometime.”  And then you walk away.




The 3rd and final tip is a bit…well, its a bit sneaky.  You’ll often get some pretty mixed reactions, so be sure you’re prepared for the results if you try this next one.  THis is often done around college campuses, and what you do is you walk up to a girl with their cell in their hand, and you say,”Thats a really cool phone, do you mind if I take a look at it?”  And then you flip it open and act as though you’re checking it out, and while you’re doing this you enter your number into the phone and call yourself.  So thats an interesting way of getting a number sort of “under the radar,” but remember that its sort of hit and miss.  You could get slapped, or you could get a much more pleasant reaction, so be prepared for anything if you decide to try it.

No comments:

Post a Comment